{"id":3513195,"date":"2025-05-30T09:31:28","date_gmt":"2025-05-30T09:31:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/?p=3513195"},"modified":"2025-05-30T09:31:28","modified_gmt":"2025-05-30T09:31:28","slug":"the-parent-and-the-pendulum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/stories\/2025-05-30\/the-parent-and-the-pendulum\/","title":{"rendered":"The Parent and the Pendulum"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Embed Player\" src=\"https:\/\/play.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/36582835\/height\/192\/theme\/modern\/size\/large\/thumbnail\/yes\/custom-color\/5c4c94\/time-start\/00:00:00\/hide-show\/yes\/hide-playlist\/yes\/hide-subscribe\/yes\/hide-share\/yes\/download\/yes\/font-color\/FFFFFF\" width=\"100%\" height=\"192\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/h4>\n<h3><span class=\"sqsrte-text-color--lightAccent\">Description<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"\">In a culture driven by achievement, autonomy, and digital distraction, our sense of identity is often shaped by performance and external validation. Yet beneath this surface, many carry unseen psychological imprints from childhood and culture alike. What happens when we begin to examine these layers and imagine healthier ones?<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">In this week\u2019s Frankly, Nate explores the themes of attention, awareness, and the psychological impacts of modern life. Through poetry and reflection, he examines the pull toward validation and control that shapes many of our behaviors. Building on the Ideal Parent Figure Protocol developed by Dr. Daniel P. Brown, he expands the concept to explore what ideal cultural and ecological figures might offer in addressing our deeper collective needs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">What are the qualities of a healthy culture &#8212; one rooted in belonging, continuity, and shared purpose? How can we reconnect with ecological kinship and wisdom? And finally, where is your branch of stillness, the one place the pendulum of this world doesn&#8217;t reach?<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">(Recorded May 12, 2025)<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Lu9KoPSnQkc?si=MO6L_8PJRQFCyt_b\" width=\"100%\" height=\"450\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"sqsrte-text-color--lightAccent\">Show Notes<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thegreatsimplification.com\/s\/Frankly-95-Transcript-The-Parent-and-the-Pendulum.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">PDF Transcript<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">00:19 &#8211; Attention and Awareness (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thegreatsimplification.com\/frankly-original\/94-social-overshoot\">Frankly 94<\/a> Social Overshoot?)<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">00:52 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/philipglass.com\/\">Philip Glass<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">00:54 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brian-eno.net\/\">Brian Eno<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">04:58 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/read.realityblind.world\/view\/975731937\/62\/\">Supernormal Stimuli<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">04:59 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thegreatsimplification.com\/animations\">Carbon Pulse<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">06:05 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/read.realityblind.world\/view\/975731937\/20\/\">Wide Boundary Framing<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">07:13 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Imprinting_(psychology)\">Imprinting<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">07:24 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/studybuddhism.com\/en\/tibetan-buddhism\/tantra\/mahamudra-dzogchen\/what-is-mahamudra\">Mahamudra<\/a> Retreat<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">07:34 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.drdanielpbrown.com\/buddhist-meditation-teacher\">Dan Brown<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">08:19 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/my.clevelandclinic.org\/health\/body\/21202-nervous-system\">Nervous System<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Co-regulation\">Co-Regulating<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">11:58 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.webmd.com\/a-to-z-guides\/what-is-cortisol\">Cortisol<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">12:00 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hopkinsmedicine.org\/health\/conditions-and-diseases\/the-immune-system#:~:text=The%20immune%20system%20works%20to,They%20send%20out%20lymphocytes.\">Immune System<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">12:50 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/ourworldindata.org\/how-many-species-are-there\">10 Million Other Species<\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thegreatsimplification.com\/frankly-original\/92-artificial-intelligence-in-service-of-life\">Frankly 92<\/a> Artificial Intelligence &#8211; In Service of Life?)<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">13:03 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Tree_of_life_(biology)\">Evolutionary Tree of Life<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this week\u2019s Frankly, Nate explores the themes of attention, awareness, and the psychological impacts of modern life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":128238,"featured_media":3513342,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[79720,213535],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3513195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society","category-society-featured"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3513195","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/128238"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3513195"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3513195\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3513343,"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3513195\/revisions\/3513343"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3513342"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3513195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3513195"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.resilience.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3513195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}